We had even more memorable teaching and ministry times at the Ranch. One important session was with Phyllis Softmore and her team. They spoke to us about the church's restoration. She spoke of a religious spirit in the church. But as we get closer to God, we become more aware of our sins.

 

They stayed to pray for us. Their words for me confirmed what others had said. It was very encouraging. Phyllis told me that the Lord would grant my heart's desires. She said she knew I yearned for Him. She also prayed for protection against illness that might hinder my life.

 

At that time, I was reminded and made a note in my journal about how I surrendered my longing for companionship in exchange for the physical healing of a lady back home. Looking back now, I realise how much I had to learn about suffering and humility. However, God remains a compassionate God, and He directs my life. He knew the deep loneliness in my heart and what awaited me.

 

There was a man who accompanied Phyllis Softmore to help with the ministry. I noticed that he kept glancing at me. He was dressed like a real cowboy and looked like a typical American in his jeans and cowboy boots. I felt increasingly uneasy. He might think I wanted a relationship with an American guy. Later, during lunch, he approached me and said, “The Lord is going to introduce you to your husband soon.” He smiled and walked away, leaving me in stunned silence.

 

At least he didn’t think it was him; otherwise, he would have introduced himself. I felt a bit agitated, thinking he knew nothing about me. How could he say that? He didn’t even realise that I didn’t want to get married again.

 

Looking back now, I realise, “Girl, you did not know what was waiting for you back home in South Africa.”